Play life holding the trump card!
Pamela Barc

Pamela Barc
Executive Director


Savvy Social Skills

"... Thank you for such com-prehensive and applicable information. I feel significantly much more equipped to teach my own children the empowering messages society has so poorly supported parents in."
   L. Crankshaw
   Parent
   Florida

"I have been in this industry for over twenty years. Kidequette and Uniquely U are fantastic programs to assist educators in areas children are just not receiving. There is no doubt these programs will create positive change for kids, parents, and teachers!"
   D. Messer
   Preschool Director
   Michigan

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Uniquely U

Courses for Young Men | Courses for Young Ladies

Courses for Young Men

Course I:
The Rascally Boy
* Joy of the "All Boy"
* Wired for a Reason
* From Tree House to Tie
* Monster in Your Closet
* Is the Bed Head Dead?
* Mirror, Mirror on the Wall
* Couch Slouch
Course II:
G is for Gentlemen
* Mom! Pick up the Phone!
* Look Deep Into my Eyes
* No Chocolate Handshaking
* Get the Respect You Earned
* Follow the Leader--Or Not!
* "May I Introduce You?"
* The Polished Person Wins
Course III:
Gangs, Geeks, or a Gentlemen
* Is He a Jerk or Gentleman?
* Nobody Cares What You Know Until They Know That You Care
* Becoming a Chick Magnet--Hygiene
* Is Paper Really a Way to Converse!
* Yes, I'll Super-Size it! Not!
* Setting Boundaries for a Happier You
* Family--You're a Piece to the Puzzle
Course IV:
Dining with Class
* Mastering the Table Setting
* Don't Slurp the Soup
* Do's to Raise Your Allowance
* Cutting/Chewing/Consideration
* Responding to Accidents
* T-Shirt, Tuxedo and Tipping
* Food Finesse/Cultural Customs

Acceptable or Desensitized?
Is There a Price We Are Paying?

It's an age-old controversy of “Boys Will Be Boys.” Society has become desensitized to what is acceptable and what is not. As parents, we want children who are well mannered, not obnoxious, and who respect others. You work hard at it and should be proud of your efforts. But the fact is, the schools have our children seven to nine hours per day—sometimes longer. Boys need to feel empowered. Because of their competitive nature, high energy, and need for accomplishments or “fixing things,” we designed our program to draw out the God-given needs that motivate their behaviors. Whether boys are outgoing or loners, this program draws out their potential to feel they have control of their lives and will be rewarded by friends, family, peers, and society for making choices that are accepted by our society.

Energetic, developmentally appropriate exercises for boys will challenge every participant regardless of age. They will complete the program with a sense of accomplishment and motivation to continue implementing the skills they learn. There will be laughter and friendships gained. Each student receives take-home “Tips and Tools,” supplies, and upon completion of all four courses a “Certificate of Etiquette Excellence” will be awarded. Course I–III are 90 minutes. Course IV finale is 2 ½ hours in length. For Grades 6 – 10.


Courses for Young Ladies | Courses for Young Men

Courses for Young Women

Course I:
Ladies with Purpose
* Cool, Confident Character
* A Grand Stand
* Sitting Says Something
* Slouch No More!
* Seeing Is Believing--Eye Contact
* Fitting In, Not Out
* Comfortable in Your Own Skin
Course II:
Your Best Foot Forward
* Image--The 7-Second Rule
* Reputations Can Rupture
* Smiles, Frowns, and Dimples
* Easy Introductions
* A-Z Embarrassment Avoiders
* Cell and Tell Phones
* Salon--Your New Best Friend
Course III:
The Power of Feminity
* Dress to Impress Affordable
* Make-Up--Less Is More
* The Sleaze Factor--Hygiene
* So You Want To Be Remembered?
* Finding and Keeping Friendships
* Gift Receiving and Giving Winners
* Boundaries: Making Life Fun
Course IV:
Dining--Diplomat or Disaster?
* Why Table Manners Matter
* Proper Silverware Use
* Dining Disasters--What To Do?
* Where and When Food Choices
* Cross-Culture Approaches
* You're Invited...Hostess or Guest
* 5-Course Dinner with Tutorial

Excellence:
A Goal Worth Pursuing

As a young girl I recall being told many times, “If you are going to do something, at least do it right!” This admonition was applied to every chore--dusting, washing dishes. I was learning the value of excellence as I performed each task. But doing things well did not mean they had to be done with perfection--only my best effort with the knowledge I had. Society should be ashamed of the perfection messages drilled into the minds of our youth. Parents should be honored for their efforts to accept their child for who he or she is--but can we ever have too many skills to provide our child with the best edge? In this program, young women learn self-worth, confidence, self-evaluation, impact of their image, and how to move from feeling like a child to desiring and welcoming their growth into womanhood. Each participant will arrive as one person and blossom into another.

Lessons are taught using visual aids, music, discussion, and a positive approach to taking responsibility for yourself. Each student receives take-home “Tips and Tools,” supplies, and an “Excellence in Etiquette Certificate” upon completion of all four courses. Course I–III are 90 minutes. Course IV finale is 2 ½ hours in length. For grades 6-10.

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